Dr Peter Howie

Most people don’t go off sex.
They go off the repetitive nature of sex.
Perhaps an Adult Sex and Intimacy Coach can help
You want a phenomenal sex life. You might have even had one… once upon a time. But somewhere along the line, things have changed.
Maybe you’re experiencing these symptoms of a mediocre sex life:
• Average Sex
• No sex
• No language for sex
• Sex is dull, boring, repetitive
• Sex is not worth the effort (worth repeating)
• Sex is deprioritised
• I have to do it all
• Thinking, “they don’t want me.”
A phenomenal sex life requires intimacy, caring, love & a capacity to play. But that feels so far away from your current reality.
At least 1 of these 7 beliefs are contributing to your sexual frustration…
1. “We should know how to do sex properly.”
2. “Everyone else knows what to do but me/us.”
3. “The sex act is all done, naturally, through body language and telepathy.”
4. “Everything should lead to penetrative sex.”
5. “Orgasm and ejaculation are the goal of sex.”
6. “Sex without orgasms and ejaculation is not real sex.”
7. “My partner should know how I feel.”
Those kind of harmful beliefs can make us too embarrassed to talk about sex.
Or sometimes, it means any talk about sex leads to a fight.
And when you’re afraid to talk about sex, it makes it very hard to get out of a sexual rut.
Needs go unexpressed.
Feelings get hurt.
People feel invisible to each other.
We fear rejection & criticism.
We feel isolated & alone.
What’s involved in sex & intimacy coaching with Dr. Peter?
Step 1: You reach out and contact me via email, text, or a phone call.
Step 2: We make time for a short, 30-min talk on Zoom, at no cost. This call is a confidential space for you to explain what you want to improve about your sex life.
You use our time together to decide if we’d work well together & if you’ve got confidence that I can help you change your experience of sex for the rest of your life.
Step 3: Work out if a Step 3 is even required or you can do it on your own.