Kylie Long

I'm Kylie. I'm a PACFA-registered psychotherapist and SSEAA-certified somatic sexologist.

I help women and couples who are ready to stop enduring their intimate lives and start actually living them. That might mean working through painful sex (including vaginismus), lost desire, shame, trauma, or life transitions like menopause and motherhood. Or it might mean something else entirely - curiosity, expansion, the desire to feel more alive in your body.

My approach is body-based, trauma-informed, and deeply respectful of your pace. This isn't just talk therapy. We work with the nervous system, with breath and sensation, with the intelligence of the body itself. I draw on process-oriented psychology, somatic psychotherapy, nervous system science and somatic sex education - but mostly I follow what's emerging for you.

I also bring 20 years of experience in community development and family violence reform. That background taught me that our struggles don't exist in a vacuum. They're shaped by culture, shame, and what we've been taught to perform. Reclaiming our bodies and desire is both personal and political - and also, sometimes, just delicious.

For couples, I hold the relationship itself as my client. I don't take sides. I help you see the patterns you're caught in, and give you practical tools to shift them.

I see people in-person at Hanna's Arcade in Armidale, and online across Australia.

Training & credentials

-PACFA Registered Psychotherapist (#27029)
-SSEAA Certified Somatic Sexologist
-Advanced training in Process-Oriented Psychology
-Gottman Method Couples Therapy
-Trauma-informed facilitation
-20+ years in community development, conflict resolution, restorative justice and group facilitation

I work in regular clinical supervision and uphold the ethical standards of both PACFA and SSEAA.

I live and work on the Northern Tablelands of NSW, on the lands of the Banbai people. The land here teaches me something every day - about slowness, cycles, belonging, and the patience of deep time.

I'm a lifelong student of embodiment, ecology, and the wild intelligence of the body. I have a daily practice of breathwork (pranayama), meditation, and time in nature. I believe healing isn't just about symptom reduction - it's about remembering our belonging. To our bodies, each other and the living world that holds us. Until we embrace our own wild nature, we won't appreciate the wild beauty of the earth - and we'll continue to feel separate from the very thing that sustains us.

If who I offer sounds like your kind of therapy, you're welcome here exactly as you are.